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meanings of the Sanskrit root for yoga (yuj),
the Latin root for religion (religare),
and the Latin root for art (ar)
are the same: to bind or unite. Yoga, as with religion and art,
brings union. |
Yoga
can be considered an art, and just as art need not be confined to a
canvas or museum, the practice of yoga need not be confined to a mat or
studio. The most important stretch we can make in our practice of yoga
is to take it into our daily lives, into every moment, into every
encounter. This is not to say that we should drop our individual
practice or skip our yoga classes, but rather that we can enter these
activities as a way of honing our strength, flexibility, and balance so
that these qualities are brought to life, and kept alive, in all our
dealings.
The
philosopher Nietzche said “art is essentially the affirmation, the
blessing, and the deification of existence.” As an art, the practice
of yoga also affirms, blesses, and deifies existence — every moment of
it, not just for 90 minutes; every aspect of it, mind, emotions, and
spirit, not just the body.
We
can practice yoga with the same dedication and devotion as a religion
can be practiced (though yoga is not a religion in the conventional
sense). The Sanskrit root for yoga (yuj),
the Latin root for religion (religare),
and the Latin root for art (ar)
are similar in meaning: to bind or unite. Yoga, as with religion and
art, brings union. The practice brings our individual self in union with
our Self, with the beauty, love, and wholeness that form our essence.
The
Challenge of Yoga
Yoga
is often taught merely as another physical practice or discipline. The
primary focus of yoga should not be so much on physical fitness, which
will be a natural outcome of the practice, but on inner
fitness. What is going on between our ears? What is going on in our
hearts? These are the questions we should pose and answer in our
practice.
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The
primary focus of yoga should not be so much on physical fitness,
which will be a natural outcome of the practice, but on inner
fitness.
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When
we focus only on physical fitness, we can develop a strong and flexible
body while leaving our mental, emotional, and spiritual sides withered.
We might be able to lift a heavy weight without hurting our back, or
dance without pulling a muscle, but when challenged by life’s
inevitable obstacles, we easily fall apart. Our only answer to life’s
trials is inane and futile questioning such as “Why is this happening
to me?” or “Why didn’t things progress according to my
expectations and plans?”
The
yoga of inner fitness attunes our attention to the “How” questions,
such as “How can I respond favorably and gracefully to this
situation?” It brings importance to the
inner pose we hold in our minds: our attitude.
In
the words of B.K.S. Iyengar, “The brain is the hardest part of the
body to adjust in
asanas.”
The real challenge of yoga is not so much
how
far we can stretch but how
we stretch far.
Cherishing
this spirit of yoga becomes even more urgent today as yoga begins to
enter the mainstream. Commonly, yoga is being taught in fitness centers
by aerobics teachers who have little understanding of the depth of yoga.
Too often, body and ego consciousness are being strengthened at the
expense of soul consciousness, and the practice is undertaken in much
the same way as the other physical fitness activities: dead serious,
plenty of sweat, and little joy. How often do we see smiling faces in
fitness centers?
The
Bhagavad Gita states that yoga
is “skill in action.” Yoga is balance and peace maintained within action. Some people use yoga as an escape or withdrawal from
action. When a stretch becomes a grueling challenge or when life’s
climb gets treacherously steep, yoga teaches us to proceed with a
lion’s heart and a level head. In this spirit, we bring the greatest
skill in action.
How
Do We Hold the Positions We
Take On in Life?
Hatha
yoga postures give us an opportunity to learn to assume many positions
with grace. This practice can carry over to the many
"positions" we take on in life. Whether it be as manager,
secretary, parent, partner, environmentalist, we can learn to take on
these positions with the same focus and inner peace that we practice in
our yoga: we assume our responsibilities gracefully; we hold to our
responsibilities gracefully; and, when the time is right, we let go of
our responsibilities gracefully, moving on to the next
position and its associated responsibilities.
The
Sanskrit term for yoga postures, asana,
means “sitting” comfortably, steadily, and effortlessly. Thus, our
goal is to learn to become comfortable in a variety of positions, to
breathe easily under all kinds of circumstances.
We
learn to listen to the body and to extend ourselves without pain or
strain. When we strain or push, we lose the grace of the posture.
Nothing is gained except, perhaps, injury. Muscles do not stretch when
they are being traumatized. They do not become more flexible when they
are being forced. They recoil and tighten to protect themselves from
injury. If, instead, we gently enter a posture and relax into it, the
muscles seem to trust us. They can let go of their protective,
fear-based tension. Only then do we experience the grace of the posture.
We experience a wonderful sense of relief and a lasting, inner glow of
energy.
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Cherishing
this spirit of yoga becomes even more urgent today as yoga
begins to enter the mainstream. Commonly, yoga is being taught
in fitness centers by aerobics teachers who have little
understanding of the depth of yoga.
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How
Do We Extend Ourselves?
In
yoga, we are encouraged to extend our horizons of mobility and
consciousness rather than being stuck in familiar ways that feel safe to
us. We extend sensibly and compassionately. We create an inner
environment that is safe and assuring, one that we can bring with us as
we approach the unknown that lies beyond our preconceived and often
illusory limits.
This
way of extending ourselves and handling change makes yoga an effective
stress management tool. Psychologists claim that change is one of the
greatest causes of stress (they list marriage, divorce, moving to a new
job or location, and the ultimate transition — death — as the
greatest stressors).
Yoga helps assuage the anxieties associated with change by connecting us
to a source of strength and peace at the core of our being that we bring
with us wherever we go.
Through
yoga, we extend our range of comfort, and beyond the yoga mat, we may
begin to experience more ease when confronted by difficult situations
that in the past had usually ruffled our feathers.
In
yoga classes, we focus on our own progress and avoid comparing and
competing with others. Comparison and competitiveness tend to move our
focus from internal to external.
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Without
levity, our yoga practice resorts to yo-yo
yoga: our enthusiasm goes up and down. We falter ... The
weight of seriousness becomes too heavy to bear. |
Competition
has its place but not in yoga. Competitiveness tends to narrow our
vision to the goal of winning. In giving too much importance to the goal
(victory), we lose sight of, and delight in, the value of the moment
(the process, the game). We lose joy and playfulness, attributes that
require being fully present in the moment.
So,
the goal of yoga is to be fully and playfully and delightfully present
within every moment. Karlfried Graf von Durckheim says it this way:
“The
initiates strive toward mastery and even at this state should have the
taste for play on the way, pleasure in the dharma
[duty, or responsibility to our central law of our being], the samadhi
[mystical union] of playing.”
Can
We Be More Playful in Our Practice?
Play
is a state of being that can inspire as well as infuse our yoga
practice. Hugo Rahner said “To play is to yield oneself to a kind of
magic... to enter a world where different laws apply, to be relieved of
all the weights that bear it down, to be free, kingly, unfettered and
divine.”
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“The
day you are liberated, you will laugh, and laugh, and laugh!”
~
Sri Ramakrishna
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This
is the creative activity of what Hinduism calls Lila, the divine play of God, through which the one is transformed
into the many, and the many returns to the one. In a sense, when we
enter a yoga posture, we can think of ourselves as engaging in that
divine play: creating a posture or assuming a position and then becoming
one with it and experiencing the unity of self with Self or spirit. Fred
Donaldson, author of Playing by
Heart, writes this about play:
“Original
play derives its power from a source immemorial beyond our oldest
memories revealing to us the furthest connections of our souls... A
sense of grace, a light delirium sparks a sensitive detector in a human
spine at the invitation to play. An intimate energy is shared; an
appetite for life increases.”
The
way to enter this state of being is to be childlike. In Christ’s
words: “Except ye ... become as little children, ye shall not enter
into
the kingdom of heaven.”
Similarly, the great yogi Sri Ramakrishna said, “So long as one does
not become simple like a child, one does not get divine illumination.”
When we become childlike in our practice, we can experience heaven on
earth. We become illumined in a magical state.
We
become childlike in our practice by having a beginner’s mind.
The
Zen master Shunryu Suzuki said, “In the beginner’s mind there are
many possibilities, but in the expert’s there are few.”
The child’s mind is free of judgment and preconceptions about
the way things should be. It is open and inquisitive, taking delight in
even the ordinary. In fact, most everything is extraordinary to a
healthy child. When we lose that sense of delight, we age rapidly. As
the saying goes, “you know you are getting old when you have lost your
marvels!”
In
play, the child laughs often and is seldom discouraged. When learning to
walk, a fall is not the end of the road: the child gets right back up
and tries again. We adults are walking today because we had the mind and
spirit of a child!
Laughter
Is a Good Stretch, Too!
We
can be serious about our practice of yoga, but we do not have to be
solemn. Too often, people practice yoga and other disciplines with a
“grim” and bear it attitude. Ultimately, their practice resorts to yo-yo yoga: their enthusiasm and commitment go up and down, and soon
they fall from the path. The weight of seriousness becomes too heavy to
bear.
When
we take ourselves too seriously in our practice, we feed our ego and
become heavy hearted. When we live and practice with a sense of humor,
we feed our soul and become lighthearted. It gives us a lift, lubricates
our mental ball bearings, and helps us get back on a roll.
Moreover,
laughter is one of the means of initiation from master to disciple (the
other means being touch and sight).
Ramakrishna once said “The day you are liberated, you will
laugh, and laugh, and laugh.” The greatest yoga teachers and spiritual
leaders have a deep sense of humor. Deliberate laughter is one of the
most highly recommended Taoist and Zen meditations. A Japanese proverb
says “Time spent laughing is time spent with the gods.” Is this
convincing enough that laughter has value, even in such sacred places as
yoga studios?
A
wholesome sense of humor and yoga both bring similar benefits to mind,
body, and spirit. The word “humor” comes from the Latin humere, which means to be fluid like water. A sense of humor helps
us become more fluid and flexible. We learn to flow. Without a sense of
humor in our yoga practice, we end up with a flexible body but a stiff
and brittle mind.
Laughter,
the behavioral response of humor, provides a good stretch. It keeps us
loose, and it is healing, energizing, and even transforming. It raises
our spirits and stretches limited perspectives. After Steven Spielberg
finished his epic film, Schindler’s
List, he became severely depressed. He was very disturbed by the
atrocities of the holocaust and unable to snap out of his depression.
Nothing seemed to help until he finally telephoned his friend Robin
Williams. Just a few minutes conversing with the comic provided the snap
Spielberg was looking for.
The
kind of humor being addressed here is wholesome humor that uplifts the
spirit and also brings unity and rapport among people. Cheap humor
(sarcasm and put downs) hurts, divides, or excludes people. It comes at
the expense of someone else or of another race or group of people (such
as with ethnic jokes).
Humor
does not have to be obscene to induce laughter, nor does being humorous
equate to being a stand-up comedian, no more than being a yogi equates
to being an acrobat. In the words of Garrison Keillor:
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"Humor
is not a trick, not jokes. Humor is a presence in the world —
like grace — and
shines on everybody.”
Replace
“humor” with “yoga” in Keillor’s statement and no
truth is lost.
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"Humor
is not a trick, not jokes. Humor is a presence in the world — like
grace — and shines on
everybody.”
Replace
“humor” with “yoga” in Keillor’s statement and no truth is
lost. Humor and yoga give us a way of being in the world, a way of
embracing reality (or a pose) with openness, gentleness, and
lightheartedness.
By
keeping a healthy sense of humor about ourselves, we can accept more
easily who we are and where we are. With this acceptance, we attain a
state of grace and levity that raises our spirits but keeps us down to
earth. Rather than arrogantly placing ourselves above others, we can
accept and feel a sense of unity with them. Again, yoga is
unity. If what we practice sets us apart from others, then we are
not practicing yoga.
A
hearty laugh is good for the heart.
It relaxes the diaphragm, improves circulation, and relieves stress. It
promotes ideal breathing by relaxing the shoulders and the neck and
alternately tensing and releasing the abdomen. By building up stomach
pressure, it improves circulation to the entire body. Laughter
strengthens the immune system by stimulating the thymus, the master
gland of the immune system, located near the heart.
By
laughing out loud with certain asanas
such as the bow (dhanurasana)
and boat (naukasana) poses,
we double their benefits. In addition, with this practice, called laughasana, we make asanas of
ourselves: we loosen the powerful hold of our ego and bring freedom to
our soul.
As
with yoga, laughter activates both hemispheres of the brain and
increases coordination between them. This brings a higher level of
consciousness with greater mental clarity and creativity. Our western
culture tends to emphasize the importance of the left hemisphere of
the brain which is used primarily for linear thinking, analysis, and
so forth. In the east, the right hemisphere has more weight. It
contributes primarily to intuitive thinking and the ability to
synthesize. When humor provokes laughter, the literally-minded left
brain has given way to the metaphorical, synthesizing right brain.
Smile
Yoga: A Good Stretch for the Face, a Light for the World
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A
smile sends a neural message that calms the nervous system...
According to the Taoist masters, a smile transmits chi
[prana] inside our body and brings warmth and health.
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If
we cannot manage to laugh in any given situation, all is not lost: we
can at least manage a smile! Researchers have found that a smile sends
a neural message that calms our nervous system and helps us feel safe
inside. The Taoists have always known the benefits of a smile. They
claim that a genuine smile transmits
chiinside one’s body and brings warmth and health.
Taoists practice the “Inner Smile,” a form of meditation in which
practitioners smile within, imagining and feeling their entire body
being flooded with the golden, healing energy of the smile. This
practice is rejuvenating and refreshing. Try it!
A
smile also sends a message of love and safety to others. A smile
signals acceptance. As Mother Teresa said, a smile is the beginning of
peace. So, a smile is no small thing: not only can it help change our
personal state but also the state of the world.
Mahatma
Gandhi said we have to be the change that we seek in the world. All of
us want peace and joy to abound on this planet. It all starts within
each of us. May we be that change we seek. May we bring that peace and
joy into our hearts. May we bring it into our practice. Above all, may
we then make the big stretch, beyond our mats, to bring it into the
world around us. Bring it to family. Bring it to work. Bring it to
school. Bring it to the streets. This is the essence of yoga!
When
faced by difficulties, we can rise gracefully to the challenge by
keeping an even mind and open heart. When our imperfections weigh us
down, we can lighten up with a sense of humor or at least a smile. We
can smile to generate a glow that shines in us and on those around us.
Someone
once said a smile is a light on our face that lets others know that we
are at home. When we practice yoga and live in this light, we are
making ourselves and those near us feel at home. We are mastering the
highest art of yoga. In the words of Henry David Thoreau:
“Morning
is when I am awake and there is a dawn in me... We must learn to
reawaken and keep ourselves awake, not by mechanical aids, but by an
infinite expectation of the dawn, which does not forsake us in our
soundest sleep. I know of no more encouraging fact than the
unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by conscious
endeavor. It is something to be able to paint a particular
picture, or to carve a statue, and so to make a few objects beautiful;
but it is
far
more glorious to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium
through which we look... To affect the quality of the day, that is the
highest of arts.”
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Phil
Milgrom is certified as both a Maha Yoga and Svaroopa Yoga
instructor, as well as a Phoenix Rising and Embodyment™
yoga therapist. He is a motivational speaker, humorist, writer,
and stress management consultant. He has taught yoga for over 25
years. His popular presentation entitled Laughter
Is a Good Stretch, Too — Humor, Healing, and Yoga has received
great reviews at yoga conferences and studios around the country. He
is a member of the American Association for Therapeutic Humor (AATP),
the Yoga Research and Education Center (YREC), the national Yoga
Alliance, and the Massachusetts/New England Yoga Alliance. Phil is
co-director of The Centered Place, a yoga studio in Warren, MA. He has
taught for the American Yoga College and several other colleges in New
England. For more information, go to:
www.philmilgrom.com
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